What happens when your partner is shut down to your advances? When you haven’t made love in so long, and you are getting frustrated, but you seem to just be coming up against a dead-end with them?

GREAT sex, like truly otherworldly, mind-blowing, life-changing sex is borne out of true intimacy and connection. We find that kind of intimacy and connection when we untangle what we have been hiding behind or protecting ourselves with…. When we can identify why we haven’t been feeling ‘safe’ to open to our partner, when we can work together to untangle dynamics and allow for vulnerability.

Are you noticing that your partner has been easily upset about little things? Escalating situations that really didn’t have to be that big a deal?

Or have they been distant? Pulled back and you can feel a quiet seething in the energy when you are around them?

For many of us, we have never thought to investigate where our ideas about sex have come from and what we might truly enjoy if we could have ANYTHING…

In this episode we explore, ‘who am I beyond what the culture has taught me about sex? Beyond outside sources that have defined my sexual experience?

I absolutely celebrate whole-heartedly when a man is dedicated to making sure the woman he’s with orgasms every time. Thank you to those men… AND I’ve worked with more than one couple where his desire to give her pleasure has actually created stress for her. She starts to feel obligated to cum for him and her body is less and less relaxed and in her own unfolding of pleasure.

Even in an environment where saying 'no' is totally accepted, it can feel difficult to identify our 'no' amidst a sexual encounter where things are escalating.

...this episode is about how when we are longing to discover sexual/sensual deepening with our partner, we NEED times where we agree to just E-X-P-L-O-R-E.

There are so many things that contribute to who we are in the bedroom. Often, we haven’t had the spaciousness to truly discover what we ACTUALLY want.

What if our drive to have that orgasm and heading down that familiar road is keeping us from a delicious road less traveled?

What happens when the initial chemistry from the sexual connection slows down? How can we lean into this for more pleasure?

Of course we all know that if/when we are longing for something, like maybe a deeper experience of our sexuality for example, we won't be able to step into new space without some growth and discomfort.

Once we get to a space of knowing what our body truly wants in any given moment, how do we feel safe enough to share that with our partner?

There are likely things your body wants to open to, but has never felt safe enough to ‘tell’ you. (If you are partnered, your body might not be ‘telling’ your partner either).

How to bring the focus into your own body and expand your personal experience and capacity for pleasure…